The last of the farewell series happened yesterday. ash is leaving to bangalore. her tedious training process starts tomorrow. I feel a bit low. there are certain times when i wish that we never grew up, we were perpetually doing final year college or better still, we never finished tenth. I have written many things about ash, about how she could deflate a tyre, how she could break a bicycle or beat guys in basket ball. i almost made her sound like a tomboy, when in reality she is far from that.there are somethings that i have never told about her, was going through my previous blog posts and realize that.
Ash has been a soul mate. a person whom i could lean towards anytime of the day, anyday in the year. She has seen me through some of my toughest times. she has been an accomplice an angelic devil's advocate and above all a goodlittle older(older by 20 days) sister.
stragely have never called her a 'sister' till date. Ash was a genuine "friend". am not talking about the sort friendship that you find in the lot of coffee outlets around town, but one that is poetical. emotional. she can gossip like the aunty next door and deck up like the babe down the lane. she can also be the chammathu kovil going girl if needed, or end up in a pub. (no she does not drink though)
She is the epitome of the cliched "friend , philosopher and guide" . We guys would have become nervous wrecks without her.
A gang of three guys and a girl always has its odd moments, once in a while there is always a middle aged old hog staring at you or an old aunty frowning at what according to her is 'deterring society'. some people in this can never accept the fact that guys and girls can be good decent friends.
Now we did not have such situations a lot of times. because we never really used to meet so often. we all had our social life, our priorities and studies. There were quiet a few times that the lot of us, me ara, ash and sri went on with our lives for months on together even without talking over the phone. but whenever we did meet it will seem as if we did not miss a day in life. i dont know about the rest, but if you ask me the thing that made me go on with life, was because of my mind which always resonated that i had an amazing set of friends who will do anything for me irrespective of the screwup.
Now then the fact that ash is moving to a new city does make me a little disappointed, we cannot i guess meet up in an hours notice. but then its okay. we will get along well. we are all still there for each other. aravind is in mysore(and i actually went there to meet him once ;) ) and bangalore is only 5 hours away. 3 hours till whitefield actually where she is setting camp. for all you know we might just go to bangalore someday. guess the only thing we would actually miss is bessi beach but i heard bangalore has some awesome pubs and some really hawt girls (i can already here ash go "one rupee coin keela ozhundiduchu").
alright i let my mind flow and i just dont know what point of narration i was in just now. anyways i guess its only me and S right now (and we are know to be out going :P ). but then ash you will be missed! there will be no one to stop us ogling at ....well ...you know ....no one to give us long lectures on etiquette. but dont you worry every time we go to java green we will get a "death by chocolate" and call you and positively burn your stomach. miss you loads get back soon. and all the best.
Ash has been a soul mate. a person whom i could lean towards anytime of the day, anyday in the year. She has seen me through some of my toughest times. she has been an accomplice an angelic devil's advocate and above all a good
stragely have never called her a 'sister' till date. Ash was a genuine "friend". am not talking about the sort friendship that you find in the lot of coffee outlets around town, but one that is poetical. emotional. she can gossip like the aunty next door and deck up like the babe down the lane. she can also be the chammathu kovil going girl if needed, or end up in a pub. (no she does not drink though)
She is the epitome of the cliched "friend , philosopher and guide" . We guys would have become nervous wrecks without her.
A gang of three guys and a girl always has its odd moments, once in a while there is always a middle aged old hog staring at you or an old aunty frowning at what according to her is 'deterring society'. some people in this can never accept the fact that guys and girls can be good decent friends.
Now we did not have such situations a lot of times. because we never really used to meet so often. we all had our social life, our priorities and studies. There were quiet a few times that the lot of us, me ara, ash and sri went on with our lives for months on together even without talking over the phone. but whenever we did meet it will seem as if we did not miss a day in life. i dont know about the rest, but if you ask me the thing that made me go on with life, was because of my mind which always resonated that i had an amazing set of friends who will do anything for me irrespective of the screwup.
Now then the fact that ash is moving to a new city does make me a little disappointed, we cannot i guess meet up in an hours notice. but then its okay. we will get along well. we are all still there for each other. aravind is in mysore(and i actually went there to meet him once ;) ) and bangalore is only 5 hours away. 3 hours till whitefield actually where she is setting camp. for all you know we might just go to bangalore someday. guess the only thing we would actually miss is bessi beach but i heard bangalore has some awesome pubs and some really hawt girls (i can already here ash go "one rupee coin keela ozhundiduchu").
alright i let my mind flow and i just dont know what point of narration i was in just now. anyways i guess its only me and S right now (and we are know to be out going :P ). but then ash you will be missed! there will be no one to stop us ogling at ....well ...you know ....no one to give us long lectures on etiquette. but dont you worry every time we go to java green we will get a "death by chocolate" and call you and positively burn your stomach. miss you loads get back soon. and all the best.